Most people get laid from their social circles.
This is a fact, my friends.
Sure, cold approaching can lead to the occasional one night stand, or even a same day lay
that blossoms into a relationship. But very rarely does this happen. In fact, it happens so
rarely, that I really rate my approach success based on the quality of numbers I get.
I say quality because anyone can get a number. But a number from a girl who actually
gives you her REAL number and will actually RETURN your phone call is so much
more important than the quantity of numbers one receives.
But of all the guys I hang around with who get laid, the ones who do so with the most
frequency are those with large social circles that include women in them.
For instance, I have a friend who is going to college. He belongs to a number of groups:
Martial Arts, Role Playing, Historical Reenactment, etc. And he gets laid.
He gets laid a LOT.
Probably more than most guys, and DEFINITELY more than me. The funny thing is, this
guy DOES NOT APPROACH! In fact, he’s deathly afraid of it!
When I noticed this, I took a good look at the guys I know who are getting laid frequently,
and sure enough, there was the proof. They were all getting laid from either girls they
already knew, or met through friends, family, or some type of hobby.
This is an incredible revelation for me because social circles have always been the
primary dipping source for men I knew were getting laid.
Back in my formative days, I’d only hang out with my guy friends, who weren’t getting
laid either. I’d do solitary activities, like play on the computer, and take part in social
activities that were typically heavily attended by males.
In short, my social circle did not include women, and because of that, I did not get laid.
As my awareness of women grew, I realized that cultivating a social circle conducive to
interacting with women ON A DAILY BASIS is absolutely IMPARATIVE to getting
laid regularly.
Most of the men I have met who are not getting laid or who are struggling to get laid are
the ones who’s social circles are almost completely empty of women, and the women
who do encompass their social circles do not interact with them regularly.
A scary truth about guys not getting laid is that they are not comfortable talking to
women, and this can show in your interactions with them.
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