She laughed. “That’s creepy,” she said.
This interaction gave me a lot of great ammunition for what was to come. I knew she
was a highly sexual woman, and somewhat adventurous in bed. I could tell this just by
the way she talked about sex in general. She also seemed to be easily excited by sexual
topics. While we were discussing her friends, I could see her pupils dilate as she talked
about the pictures they would send her.
If you notice, she also pointed out something about me she found very attractive – my
lips. The lips are a very intimate, sexual part of the body. Chances are, Christie was a
girl who enjoyed oral stimulation, which is why she was so attracted to lips (this is also
common in girls who are attracted to women).
Throughout our conversation, I was very careful not to compliment her too much, except
on things that had nothing to do with her looks. Again, any sign that I was a wussy guy
would turn her off.
After the conversation about the pictures on her phone, the mood of the night changed. I
became very flirty. We started joking more about sex. I started to notice a few more
body language cues that seemed promising. Her head tended to tilt to the side when she
looked at me as I talked, and she would play with her hair a bit more as she talked to me.
After dinner, it was a little late, and the stores were beginning to close down. I took her
on a walk around the Grove and showed her a few of the cool surroundings you can find
there.
The Gap was still open, and she asked if I’d mind going in there. She instantly made a b-
line for the girl’s section and started shopping... for underwear. (Author’s note: Every
date I’ve been on where a girl has taken me into an underwear store has been a good one!)
She kept looking at panties and asking me what I thought. I’d give her my honest
opinion about what I thought of the underwear. At one point, she said “I bet you don’t go
underwear shopping with a lot of girls, huh?”
“Actually, it happens more often than you’d think,” I said.
“Really?” she said. “I thought I was being different,” she joked.
“Apparently, lots of girls think shopping for underwear is the best way to seduce me,” I
said, winking at her. She laughed.
“Well, let me know when I start turning you on,” she said smiling.
That bit of flirting really got my attention. What she just said was a BIG indicator of
interest. Now she was starting to flirt back with me. Always a good sign.
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