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mom tries not to give in to him, but it’s really hard. Sometimes he gets so mad that he just
stops talking to everybody. I’d give anything to live in a more peaceful house. What can I do
to be on better terms with my brother?
Burned Out
Dear Burned Out,
If someone refuses to talk to you, it’s very difficult to have a healthy relationship. It sounds
like you, your mother, and your brother would benefit from some family counseling. I suggest
talking with your school counselor first. Explain the situation and how you feel about it. The
counselor may have ideas you hadn’t thought of or can suggest the next step.
If you’re concerned about the cost of family counseling, contact your county mental
health department, which may offer counseling for free or at a minimal cost. Also, some
family therapists in private practice offer sliding-scale fees (which means that clients pay only
what they can afford). The important thing is that you reach out for help. Good luck!
In friendship,
Terra
My sister is leaving for college
Hey Terra,
My sister and I are only eighteen months apart, and we’ve always been like best friends. My
problem is that she’s leaving for college in two weeks and won’t be back until Thanksgiving.
I know it’s going to be really strange around here without her. I miss her already! Can you help
me please?
Soon to Be an Only Child
Dear Soon to Be an Only Child,
It’s so nice to hear about two siblings who love each other enough to be best friends! You
and your sister are very lucky to have this kind of relationship, which of course makes it even