The Taqua of Marriage

indicates that this is just the tip of the ice-berg of our knowledge

regarding human sexuality.

"We should bear in mind that parents in reality are raising not just their children

but someone else's spouse. The parents' self-images, role-behaviors, attitudes, fear

or comfort with erotic matters in their own relationship, all become factors in the

child's sexualization."

Family Book on Sexuality

Attempts to ascribe morality/immorality to the person who suffers fetishism
are in vain, and this is why the Prophet taught us to always be gentle with the
small children as was his explicit example, par-excellence'. Presently, a flood
of sexual modalities freely invade the young child's psyche from media
sources that are unlikely to endorse the prophet's sunnah. Consider these
things carefully as you approach the marriage bed, because by the time your
spouse entered kindergarten, the most significant period of sex-education
(i.e. sexualization of the subconscious mind and central nervous system) had
already occurred. What followed during their maturation merely added
detailed fuel to pristine fires lit during early infancy and childhood. The
attitudes and physiologic moldings were/are pre-set in all of us, so to speak,
and the storms of adolescence through adulthood merely follow these hidden
paths.

Pre-Pubescence

Prior to puberty, the natural sexual response system in both male and female
is non-erotic without fantasy or desire for contact with the opposite sex. This
natural predisposition has been deviantly modified by post-modern hedonism
however, cognizance is also stimulated by prolonged exposure to artificial
light which decreases the inhibitory activity of melatonin on growth
hormones so that the onset of puberty is accelerated. The reader should also
understand that ‘sexual response’ and ‘sexual orientation’ are separate
systems of human experience, cognition and volition. Sexual orientation as
male, female or mixed variations is predominantly physiologic, i.e. chemically
and anatomically mediated via the Central Nervous System or Brain , while the
response system is mediated by the end-organs , i.e. by genitalia, skin, sense
organs and breasts). Both systems are related and somewhat modified