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SURVEY WAS CONDUCTED WITH MARKET RESEARCH FIRM SURVEYMONKEY. SOURCES FOR ORGASM TIPS: JENNIFER ASHTON; CINDY GALLOP; DEBBY HERBENICK; EMILY MORSE; KAT VAN KIRK

COSMOPOLITAN July 2015 137

WHEN YOU DON’T ORGASM

WITH A PARTNER, WHAT ARE THE

MOST COMMON OBSTACLES?

Ready, se t, O!

HE FINISHES BUT

YOU DIDN’T... AND

YOU WANT TO

Give him a few minutes

to recover, kiss him, and

say, “OK, my turn now.”

Then slip him your bullet

vibe and say, “Touch me

right here with this.”

YOU’RE BOTH THIS

CLOSE, BUT HE’S

NOT DOING THE

RIGHT THINGS

Show him just what you

need. Reach down and

touch yourself, or hop

on top to take control of

the speed. And narrate:

“It feels so good when

we do it this way...”

IT’S NOT GOING

TO HAPPEN FOR

YOU TONIGHT

(KEYWORD:

TONIGHT)

Whisper, “I want you to

come” in his ear. After

he does? Tell him, “It

wasn’t you. I was just

not going to get there

tonight.” Then try again

tomorrow morn. >

TALK

THE

TALK

If only talking about

sex were as easy as

Salt-N-Pepa made it out

to be. In real life, letting

someone who is inside

your body know they

aren’t exactly getting

you there is very, very

hard (no pun intended).

Find your voice with

Herbenick’s tips. What

to say when...

Ready, se t, O!
2.
Don’t be afraid to reveal a
kinky desire. No fetish is
antifeminist. Just because you
like being called a slut during
sex doesn’t mean you like
it during dinner.

3.

Do yoga for your

vagina! Keep the energy

fl owing down there by taking

deep breaths and imagining

sending them to your lady

cave. Sounds wack, but

it’s basically female

Viagra.

COSMO SURVEY

50%

3%

38%

35%

I feel like I’m almost

there but can’t quite

get over the edge.

I’in my

ohad or

fd on

hIlook.

Not enough

clitoral

stimulation.

Not the right

kind of clitoral

stimulation from

my partner.

love & lust

32%

I’m too in my

own head or

focused on

how I look.