men
“Which movie are
you embarrassed
to love?”
Steer him away from
cool-guy talk to a more
authentic and
vulnerable place. As
he dives into why
Beauty and the Beast
or a cheesy rom-com is
his favorite flick, you
might discover a detail
or two about him that
nobody else knows.
“What’s an
activity you don’t
do enough?”
Plenty of people
have jobs they’re not
super passionate
about, but most
everyone has a hobby
they wish they could
spend more of their
free time on. Accessing
this happy part of
his brain will bring
him joy...which
he can then share
with you.
“Is there anything
you suck at?”
He can show off his
funny side with stories
about the time he
epically wiped out
while surfing or sang
an ear-piercing
karaoke rendition of
Adele’s “Hello.” If he
can’t come up with
anything, it’s a red
flag—humility is an
important quality in a
partner.
“What type
of vacation do
you prefer?”
Maybe he loves
backpacking in Peru
or wandering the
Louvre. His answer
will reveal your
compatibility and
make you feel closer if
you have similar tastes.
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MA N LY V O WS
TRUE TALES OF
A GROOMSMAN
No doubt, bridezillas are roaming
banquet halls this wedding season.
But what about their future spouses?
Here, men dish on what they’ve
endured for their betrothed brethren.
T H E L O V E C O A C H
4 REVEALING FIRST-DATE QUESTIONS
Get the dude talking (so you can figure out if you like him!) with
these smart convo-starters from dating pro Matthew Hussey.
BUDDY BAT TLES
“It took me a solid
three weeks to get all his
friends on board for the
bachelor party. There were so
many disagreements, it almost
broke up the whole thing.”
—STEVE C., 30
911 WAKE-UP CALL
“The morning of, the
groom was so drunk,
I had to coordinate getting
him an IV of fluids.”
—KEITH H., 29
SCOOPING POOP
“The groom’s puppy
was in the bridal party, so
of course I was put in charge
of dog duty. I had to
calm her down, take her on
walks, and feed her.”
—DILLON H., 20
FAMILY LIES
“I took my brother, the groom,
to a strip club. One stripper
looked familiar. Then it hit me:
She was our third cousin! I
pulled her off him quick. To
this day, he doesn’t know.”
—MIKE R., 30
BILINGUAL LESSONS
“After getting help translating
my speech, I had to read
it—line by line—in English,
then in Spanish.”
—BRIAN R., 21