attachment
CalmCalmMMomoment.coment.com 4545“We don’t fall in love with our clone – and it’s
common for many women and men who are
anxious to attract a more avoidant person,”
explains Pam Custers. “My advice is that we
can all benefit from understanding our own
attachment style, and that of our partner.
“Sometimes it can feel like our partner is
deliberately thwarting us – and that’s not to
say in some relationships this may well be the
case. Your partner may not be emotionally
available or invested in the relationship, but
that’s a different conversation.
“If your partner and you are prioritising
your relationship as being the primary one
in both your lives, and you’re still having
difficult arguments, then understanding
your attachment style will facilitate how you
maximise – and benefit emotionally from –
your relationship.”
Understanding
an attachment
disconnect
Spotting signs of an attachment
disconnect is an important step