Communication Between Cultures

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  • Some people in many parts of the world put dogs in their ovens, but people in the
    United States put them on their couches and beds. Why?

  • Some people in Kabul and Kandahar pray five times each day while kneeling on
    the floor, but some people in Jerusalem pray while standing erect and slightly rock-
    ing back and forth. Why?

  • Some people speak Tagalog, but others speak English. Why?

  • Some people paint and decorate their entire bodies, but others spend hundreds of
    dollars painting and decorating only their faces. Why?

  • Some people shake hands when introduced to a stranger, but other people bow at
    such an encounter. Why?
    The general answer to all these questions is the same—culture. Each culture pre-
    sents its members with ways of thinking and ways of behaving. That sentence can
    serve as one of the basic premises of this entire book. Rodriguez punctuates the influ-
    ence of culture on human perception and actions when she writes,“Culture consists
    of how we relate to other people, how we think, how we behave, and how we view
    the world.”^13 Although culture is not the only stimulus behind your behavior, its
    omnipresent quality makes it one of the most powerful. Hall underscores this point
    when he concludes,“There is not one aspect of human life that is not touched and
    altered by culture.”^14 Wood further speaks to this notion when she writes,“We are
    not born knowing how, when, and to whom to speak, just as we are not born with
    attitudes about cooperating or competing. We acquire attitudes as we interact with
    others, and we then reflect cultural teachings in the way we communicate.”^15 Wood
    is reminding you that although you enter this world with all the anatomy and physi-
    ology needed to live here, you do not arrive knowing how to dress, what toys to play
    with, what to eat, how to deal with conflict, which gods to worship, what to strive
    for, how to spend your money or your time, how to define the questions surrounding
    death, or ways to determine“truth.”Those discoveries—and countless others—are
    part of the domain and function of culture.
    Perhaps at this stage in our discussion of culture, it is wise to ask the following
    question:What is the basic function of culture?In its most uncomplicated sense, culture,
    for over forty thousand years until today, is intended to make life unproblematic for
    people by“teaching”them how to adapt to their surroundings. The English writer
    Fuller echoed this idea in rather simple terms when he wrote,“Culture makes all
    things easy.”A more detailed explanation as to the function of culture is offered by
    Sowell:
    Cultures exist to serve the vital, practical requirements of human life—to structure a society
    so as to perpetuate the species, to pass on the hard-learned knowledge and experience of
    generations past and centuries past to the young and inexperienced in order to spare the
    next generation the costly and dangerous process of learning everything all over again from
    scratch through trial and error—including fatal errors.^16
    Culture serves a basic need by laying out a somewhat predictable world in which
    each individual is firmly grounded. It thus enables you to make sense of your sur-
    roundings by offering a blueprint for not only how to behave but also what results
    you can anticipate from that behavior. While people in every culture might deviate
    from this blueprint, they at least know what their culture expects of them. Try
    to imagine a single day in your life without the guidelines of your culture. From how
    to earn a living to how an economic system works to how to greet strangers to


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