Chat – 01 August 2019

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Mum,I’manescort...

Sexlifegone missing!

Lover-in-law

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Q

I’vestartedworking

asanescort,but

havenoideahowto

comecleantomymum!

ShethinksI’manoffice

manager– eventhough

I’vealreadymadeenough

moneytoredecorateour

house,plusbuyhera

newbathroomandsofa.

Sheworkedseveral

jobstolookafterme

and my sister growing

up.I stillliveathomeand

hatelyingtoher.How do

Itellherthe truth?

Katy, 24

A

Thefactyou’rewondering

whatyourmummightthink

meansyouhavea lovely

relationship.A mother’sloveis

unconditional,sowhileshemight

bea littleshocked,it won’tmake

herloveyouanyless.Butshemight

beconcernedaboutyoursafety.

Tellherexactlyhowit is,and

be prepared for her questions.

Q

Whenmywifegot

pregnant,wedecided

tomoveinwithmy

mother-in-law.Overtime,

sheandI endedupgrowing

close– until,oneday,we

slepttogetherwhenmy

wifewasatwork.

We’venowbeensecret

loversforseveralyears.

I lovethemboth,butdon’t

know what to do... Is it

Q

Myhusbandand

I haven’tbeen

marrieda yearyet

andalreadyoursexlife

hasnearonvanished.

It isn’thim,it’sme.

I havelostmysex

drivecompletely.

We’vebeenarguing

aboutmoney,whichis

nota turn-on,andI’ve

startedtodreadgetting

intobedwithhimin

casehetriesit on.

I wantourmarriageto

workandwanttofancy

himagain,butI’mjust

neverinthemood.

Pleasehelp, Nelly!

Jane, 31

A

Ithinkthereis moretothis

thansex.You’reavoiding

anykindofrelationship

withyourhusbandforsome

reason – which really shouldn’t

happenafterjusta year!

I saygettoyourdoctorandget

yourhormonestested– youneed

someprofessionalhelp to get to

the bottom of this.

AmI mad

to trust him?

Q

Mypartnerofthree

monthshastwo

kidswithhisex.

Hesayshehasno

feelingsforher,but

warnedmeif shegetsin

touch,nottolistentoher

asit’llallbelies.Healso

won’tletmemeether

withouthimpresent.

Whenhetookthekids

overrecently,I triedto

callandhisphonewent

tovoicemail.Hesaid

heaccidentallyfell

asleepatherhouse.

DoyouthinkI can

trusthim?

Charlotte, 33

A

No,youflippin’can’t!

WhatI’velearnedinmy

45 yearsis,if youcan’tbe

openandhonest– thenthere’s

alwaysa reason.I thinkhe’s

havinghiscakeandeatingit.

It soundslikehe’sstillina

relationshipwithhisex,andI

hatetosayit,butyou’rethebit

on the side. Kick him to the kerb!

timeformetocome clean

tomywife?

Graham, 36

A

Thisis a ludicroussituationand

youknowit is wrong.Youneed

toleaveboththesewomen.

Packyourbagsandgetout!

Tellyourwifeyou’releaving,but

don’ttellherwhatyoudid– it could

destroyherrelationshipwithhermum.

Heavensabove– talkabout

keeping it in the family..!