PREFACE
The
feeling
of
having
no
power
over
people
andeventsis
generally
un-
bearabletous«—-whenwefeel
helpless
wefeel
miserable.Noonewantsless
power;everyone
wantsmore.Intheworld
today,
however,
itis
dangerous
toseemtoo
powerhungry,
tobeovertwith
yourpower
moves.Wehave
toseemfairanddecent.Soweneedtobe
subtle~—congenialyetcunning,
democratic
yet
devious.
This
game
ofconstant
duplicity
most
resembles
the
powerdynamic
that
existed
inthe
scheming
world
of
theoldaristocraticcourt.
Throughout
history,
acourthas
always
formeditselfaroundthe
person
in
power—king,
queen,emperor,
leader.Thecourtierswhofilledthiscourtwereinan
espe-
cially
delicate
position:They
hadtoservetheir
masters,
butif
they
seemed
to
fawn,
if
they
curriedfavortoo
obviously,
theothercourtiersaround
themwouldnoticeandwouldact
against
them.
Attempts
towinthemas-
ter’s
favor,then,
hadtobesubtle.Andevenskilledcourtiers
capable
of
such
subtlety
stillhadto
protect
themselvesfromtheirfellow
courtiers,
whoatallmomentswere
scheming
to
push
themaside.
Meanwhilethecourt
was
supposed
to
represent
the
height
ofciviliza-
tionandrefinement.Violentorovert
power
moveswerefrowned
upon;
counierswouldwork
silently
and
secretly
against
anyamong
themwho
usedforce.Thiswasthecouxtier’sdilemma:While
appearing
the
very
paragon
of
elegance,
they
hadtooutwitandthwarttheirown
opponents
in
the
subtlestof
ways.
Thesuccessfulcomtierlearnedovertimetomakeall
ofhismoves
indirect;
ifhestabbedan
opponent
inthe
back,
itwaswitha
velvet
glove
onhishandandthesweetestofsmilesonhisface.Insteadof
using
coercion or
outrighttreachery,
the
perfect
courtier
got
his
way
through
seduction,charm,
deception,
and
subtle
strategy,alwaysplanning
severalmovesahead.Lifeinthecourtwasa
never-endinggame
thatre-
quired
constant
vigilance
andtactical
thinking.
Itwascivilizedwar.
Today
wefacea
peculiarly
similar
paradox
tothatofthecourtier:
Everything
must
appear
civilized,
decent,democratic,
andfair.Butifwe
playby
thoserulestoo
strictly,
ifwetakethemtoo
literally,
we
are
crushed
by
thosearounduswhoarenotsofoolish.Asthe
great
Renaissance
diplo-
matandcourtierNiccoloMachiavelli
wrote,
“Any
manwhotriestobe
good
allthetimeisboundtocometoruin
among
the
great
numberwho
arenot
good.”
Thecourt
imagined
itselfthe
pinnacle
of
refinement,
butun-
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