have
been
outgrown.
If
yourvictimsor
rivalswentwithoutsomething
im-portant,
suchasparentalsupport,
whenthey
were
children,supply
it,
oritsfacsimile.If
they
revealasecret
taste,
ahiddenindulgence,indulge
it.Inei-thercase
they
willbeunabletoresist
you.Lookfor Contrasts.Anoverttraitoftenconcealsits
opposite.People
who
thump
theirchests
are
often
big
cowards;aprudish
exterior
mayhidealascivious
soul;
the
uptight
areoftenscreaming
for
adventure;
theshy
aredying
forattention.By
probingbeyondappearances,you
willoftenfindpeople’s
weaknessesintheopposite
ofthequalitiesthey
revealto
you.FindtheWeakLink.Sometimesin
your
searchforweaknesses
itisnotwhatbutwhothatmatters.Intoday’s
versionsofthe
court,
there
is
oftensomeonebehindthesceneswhohasa
greatdealof
power,atremendousinfluenceoverthepersonsuperficially
on
top.Thesebehind-tliescenespowerbrokers
arethegroup’s
weaklink:Wintheirfavorandyouindirectly
influencetheking.Alternatively,
evenin
a
groupofpeopleacting
withtheappearanceofonewill—aswhena
groupunderattackclosesrankstoresistanoutsi-:ler———thereis
always
aweaklinkinthechain.Findtheone
personwhowillbendunder
pressure.Fillthe
Void.
The
two
main
emotional
voidsto
Killareinsecurity
andumhappiness.
Theinsecurearesuckersfor
anykindofsocial
validation;
asforthechronically
unhappy,
lookfortherootsoftheirunhappiness.
Theinsecureandtheunhappy
arethepeople
leastabletodisguise
theirweak-nesses.Theability
tofilltheiremotionalvoidsisa
greatsourceof
power,and
anindefinitelyprolongable
one.FeedonUncontrollableEmotions.Theuncontrollableemotioncanbeaparanoid
fear-wafear
disproportionatetothesituaIion~—-or
anybasemo-tivesuchaslust,
greed,vanity,
orhatred.People
inthe
gripoftheseemo-tions
often
cannotcontrolthemselves,
and
youcando
thecontrolling
forthem.OBSERVANCESOFTHE
LAWObservanceIIn 1615 thethirty—yeaH3ld
bishop
of
Lugzon,laterknownasCardinalRichelieu,
gaveaspeech
beforerepresentatives
ofthethreeestatesofFrance-clergy,nobility,
andcommoners.Richelieuhadbeenchosentoserveasthemouthpiece
fortheclergy—an
immenseresponsibility
for
a
man
stillyoungandnotparticularly
wellknown.On
allof
the
importantissuesoftheday,
thespeech
followedtheChurchline.ButneartheendofitRiche«lieudidsomething
thathadnothing
todowiththeChurchandeverything
todowithhiscareer.Heturnedtothethroneofthefifteen-year—oldKing
Louis
XIII,
andto
theQueen
Mother
Mariede’
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