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ple’s
emotions,
you
willturntheirlossofcontrolto
youradvantage:
You
keepyour
headwhile
they
are
losing
theirs.
During
an
important
battleintheWaroftheThree
Kingdoms,
inthe
third
century
A.D.,
adviserstothecommanderTs’aoTs’aodiscovereddocu»
ments
showing
thatcertainofhis
generals
had
conspired
withthe
enemy,
and
urged
himtoarrestandexecutethem.Insteadheorderedthedocu-
mentsburnedandthematter
forgotten.
Atthiscriticalmomentinthebat-
tle,
to
get
upset
ordemand
justice
wouldhavereverberated
against
him:
An
angry
actionwouldhavecalledattentiontothe
generals’disloyalty,
which
would
have
harmed
the
troops’
morale.
justice
couldwait-he
would
dealwiththe
generals
intime.Ts‘ao Ts’ao
kept
hisheadandmade
the
right
decision.
Compare
thisto
Napoleon's
response
to
Talleyrand:
Insteadof
taking
the
conspiracypersonally,
the
emperor
shouldhave
played
the
game
like
Ts’ao
Ts’ao,
carefullyweighing
the
consequences
of
any
actionhetook.
Themore
powerful
response
in
theendwouldhavebeento
ignore
Tal~
leyr-and,
orto
bring
theminister
gradually
backtohissideand
punish
him
later.
Angeronly
cutsoffour
options,
andthe
powerful
cannotthrivewith
out
options.
Once
you
train
yourself
nottotakematters
personally,
andto
control
your
emotional
responses,you
willhave
placedyourself
ina
posi-
tionoftremendous
power:
Now
you
can
play
withtheemotional
responses
ofother
people.
Stirtheinsecureintoaction
byimpugning
their
manhood,
and
bydangling
the
prospect
ofan
easyvictory
before
their
faces.Do
as
Houdinididwhen
challengedby
the
less
successful
escape
artist
Kleppini:
Revealan
apparent
weakness
(Houdini
let
Kleppini
stealthecombination
fora
pair
of
cuffs)
tohire
your
opponent
intoaction.Then
you
canbeat
himwithease.Withthe
arrogant
too
you
can
appear
weakerthan
you
are,
taunting
themintoarashaction.
Sun
Pin,
commanderofthearmiesofCh’iand
loyaldisciple
ofSun-
tzu,
onceledhis
troopsagainst
thearmiesof
Wei,
whichoutnumberedhim
twotoone.“Letus
light
ahundredthousandfireswhenour
army
enters
Wei,”
suggested
Sun
Pin,
“fifty
thousandonthenext
day,
and
onlythirty
thousandonthe
third.”
On
thethird
day
theWei
general
exclaimed,
“I
knew
the
menofCh’iwere
cowards,
andafter
only
three
days
morethan
halfofthemhavedeserted!”
So,
leaving
behindhis
slow-movingheavy
in
fantry,
the
general
decidedtoseizethemomentandmove
swiftly
onthe
Ch’i
camp
witha
lightly
armedforce.
Sun
Pin’s
troops
retreated,
luring
Wei’s
army
intoanarrow
pass,
where
they
ambushed
and
destroyed
them.
WiththeWei
general
deadandhisforces
decimated,
SunPinnow
easily
defeatedtherestofhis
army.
Inthefaceofahot—headed
enemy,finally,
anexcellent
response
isno
response.
Followthe
Talleyrand
tactic:
Nothing
isas
infuriating
asaman
who
keeps
hiscoolwhileothers
are
losing
theirs.
If
itwillworkto
your
ad-
vantage
to
unsettle
people,
affectthe
aristocratic,
bored
pose,
neither
mocking
nor
triumphant
but
simply
indifferent.Thiswill
light
theirfuse.