dedicate all of his attention to your time together. And then if
he doesn’t step up to the plate—if he doesn’t show you that he’s
willing to figure out how to put a smile on your face—then
you’ll be in the position to decide if he’s capable of giving you
what you need and at least some of what you want.
Of course, to lay out your requirements for a man, and
convey the importance of following those requirements, you
must first figure out what, exactly, your requirements are. I’ve
listed questions here that you should consider as you formulate
your top ten requirements, and I’ve left space for you to docu-
ment your list:
What specific kind of man are you looking for?
(For example, funny? Hardworking? Generous?)How do you expect to be pursued? (Do you want
regular phone calls? Text messages? Dates at least
three times a week? Do you want him to always pick
up the tab?)