A man who loves you is going to love you regard-
less. As we ourselves get bellies and love handles, we
certainly understand yours. We get that you’re not go-
ing to look exactly like you did when we first met you.
If you can keep it in some kind of parameter, though—
gain ten pounds, but avoid gaining a hundred—and be
sexy and fix it up and look nice with whatever extra
weight you’ve put on or taken off, we’re cool. If your
man is shallow, he’ll insist he just can’t see past it. But
if a man recognizes that, a few pounds notwithstand-
ing, you’re still making an effort to do what it takes to
be visually appealing, he will be fine with it.
Heels, baby. Heels. If we could get athletic shoes with
heels for women, we would. It’s just a really sexy thing to
us. I don’t know a single man who prefers women in flats;
I’ve never run into one. We all think heels make your
legs more beautiful, they make your walk more femi-
nine—and you, too. And that’s what we're attracted to.