something. However, many times you let whatever
it is slide and you move forward, and this only
enables him to continue to lie to you. You’ve heard
me say it in other chapters, if you start to enable the
liar, he knows all he needs to do is play dumb, give
you some stupid excuse, and you’ll go along with it.
However, I truly believe women know when a man
is lying and not keeping it real with them.
Stop fooling yourself. Be real with yourself about
what you see and what you feel. If you’re
uncomfortable because you sense that he cannot
give you a straight answer, listen to yourself, it’s a
warning. Especially when you confront him in a
loving, calm manner. When you know you’ve done
it the right way and he still can’t come correct, walk
away. Period.
You must show him that you’re not going to
entertain the lies. Even if he tries to guilt you into
thinking, you’re the one tripping. He feels like since
you don’t have any proof, you won’t catch him.
However, your gut is your proof. Again, I’m not
talking about just jumping to conclusions, or simply
going off hearsay. That’s different. I’m not talking
about that. I’m talking about when you tune into
122 HE’S LYING SIS