relationship. If you don’t have that, even if
everything he says to you is true about his struggles
and his issues, it won’t matter. It won’t matter
because without a connection you guys aren’t going
to survive. The relationship isn’t going to become
what it needs to become.
Connection or not, the reality is that if he truly
loves you the way he says he does, then trying and
showing some progress should be easy for him
regardless of his background or lack of experience.
To be completely honest with you, it shouldn’t be
difficult for him. I’m not saying he’s going to be
perfect tomorrow. I’m not saying he’s going to get
everything right. What I’m saying is he should be
showing a willingness to move in the right direction
and put in the work. Again, he should be trying and
showing progress toward correcting the issue so he’s
able to show you the love you need.
The only thing accepting his lack of effort,
accepting his lack of action, and simply loving him
will get you is hurt. He won’t ever get to the point
where he’ll finally want to reciprocate your feelings
and do for you because you’ve enabled his unloving
behavior and you’ve given him permission to
56 HE’S LYING SIS