right out of the gate.
All of this information then goes
through the filter of who we are, and
depending on our perceptions and
judgments and hang ups and number of
years spent in therapy, we decide if the
person is someone we want to get to
know better or not.
We’re all attracted to, as well as
turned off by, various things about other
people. And the things that stand out the
most to us are the things that remind us
the most of ourselves. This is because
other people are like mirrors for us: If
somebody bugs you, you’re projecting
onto them something that you don’t like
about yourself, and if you think they’re