awesome, they’re reflecting back
something that you see in yourself that
you like (even if it’s not developed in
you yet). I know this sounds like I’m
making a massive generalization, but just
stay with me here.
Your reality is created by what you
focus on and how you choose to interpret
it. This goes for everything, including the
things you focus on about the people in
your world. For example, depending on
who you are, you could react in myriad
ways to your new boyfriend or girlfriend
constantly referring to you as “The Giant
Dumbass.” You could A) See this as a
red flag and think they’re a bully B) See
this as a red flag and think they’re