BFFs do (unless they’re being
momentarily annoying, and then we can
thank them, too). Don’t miss the glorious
opportunity to learn that’s being handed
to you by the person whose mouth you’d
really love to stick your fist in.
The things that bother us about other
people bother us because they remind us
of something that we don’t like about
ourselves. Or their behavior triggers a
fear or insecurity that we have, but may
not realize we have. For the longest
time, one of my big stories was that
being feminine was weak and annoying.
Somewhere along the way I decided that
it wasn’t cool or powerful to act like (or
be) a girl, and my femininity became a