surrounded by who are not following
your instructions? Feel into the reality of
what it would be to let this go, breathe
into it, visualize it, fall in love with not
having it anymore, and then kick it to the
curb.
3. DON’T BE AN
ENABLER
In the fuzzier cases where you’re not
sure what to do, but you really do want
to help someone, recognize the
difference between helping and
enabling. When you reach out a helping
hand, do you feel like they’re pulling you