bonuspointstoeventhescoreagain.
Throughlearninghowtoscorebigwithaman,awomanhasanewedgeforsupportinghermanwhenhe
seemsdistantandhurt.Insteadofdoinglittlethingsforhim(fromthefist. 101 WaystoScorePointswith
aWoman, page 180 ),which iswhatshewouldwant, shecanmoresuccessfully focusherenergies in
givinghimwhathewants(asfistedinHowWomenCanScoreBigwithMen,page 199 ).
REMEMBERINGOURDIFFERENCES..............................................................................................
Bothmen andwomencanbenefitgreatly byrememberinghowdifferentlywekeep score. Improvinga
relationshiptakesnomoreenergythanwearealreadyexpendinganddoesn'thavetobeterriblydifficult.
Relationshipsareexhaustinguntilwelearnhowtodirectourenergiesintothewaysthatourpartnercan
fullyappreciate.