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P.S.TheresponseIwouldliketohearfromyou:
HerearesometypicalsituationsandsomesampleLoveLettersthatwillhelpyouunderstandthetechnique.
ALoveLetterAboutForgetfulness
WhenTomnappedlongerthanhe'dplannedandforgottotakehisdaughterHayleytothedentist,hiswife,
Samantha, wasfurious.InsteadofconfrontingTomwithherangeranddisapproval, however, shesat
downandwrotethefollowingLoveLetter.AfterwardshewasabletoapproachTominamorecentered
andacceptingway.
Becauseshewrotethisletter,Samanthadidnotfeelanurgetolectureorrejectherhusband.Insteadof
havinganargumentthey enjoyed aloving evening. ThenextweekTommade sureHayley gottothe
dentist.
ThisisSamantha'sLoveLetter:
DearTom,
1 .Anger:Iamfuriousthatyouforgot.Iamangrythatyouoverslept.Ihateitwhenyoutakenapsand
forgeteverything.Iamtiredoffeelingresponsibleforeverything.Youexpectmetodoeverything.Iam
tiredofthis.
2 .Sad:IamsadthatHayleymissedherappointment.Iamsadthatyouforgot.IamsadbecauseIfeel
likeIcan'trelyonyou.Iamsadthatyouhavetoworksohard.Iamsadthatyouaresotired.Iamsad
thatyouhavelesstimeforme.Ifeelhurtwhenyouarenotexcitedtoseeme.Ifeelhurtwhenyouforget
things.Ifeellikeyoudon'tcare.
3 .Fear:IamafraidIhavetodoeverything.Iamafraidtotrustyou.Iamafraidthatyoudon'tcare.Iam
afraidIwillhavetoberesponsiblenexttime.Idon'twanttodoeverything.Ineedyourhelp.Iamafraid
toneedyou.Iamafraidyouwillneverberesponsible.Iamafraidyouareworkingtoohard.Iamafraid
youmaygetsick.
4 .Regret:Ifeelembarrassedwhenyoumissappointments.Ifeelembarrassedwhenyouarelate.Iam
sorrythatIamsodemanding.IamsorrythatIamnotmoreaccepting.IfeelashamedthatIamnotmore
loving.Idon'twanttorejectyou.
5 .Love:Iloveyou.Iunderstandthatyouweretired.Youworksohard.Iknowyouaredoingyourbest.I
forgiveyou forforgetting. Thank you formakinganotherappointment.Thank you for wantingtotake
Hayleytothedentist.Iknowyoureallydocare.Iknowyouloveme.Ifeelsoluckytohaveyouinmylife.
Iwanttohavealovingeveningwithyou.