RULE #2: Explore Multiple VenuesThe more places you visit with a person the longer they'll feel they
knew you, because you shared more experiences together. If you go
boating and afterwards to a cooking class, she will learn more about you
than if you just go for dinner. Why? Because each environment comes
with different sights and sounds, it generates new types of conversations,
it suggests different things about your individual qualities, and at the end
of the day you'll learn more about a person than you possibly could in
just one place.
RULE #3: Ask Interesting QuestionsYou need to learn about each other, which means you shouldn't be
the only one talking. Be sure that you're finding out what you can about
the woman you are interested in. The questions should be relevant to the
conversation. If she's talking about her job, then think of questions that
will reveal something about her. You're looking to answer questions like
these:
- Why does she do what she does?
- How does she feel about different aspects of her life?
- What kinds of things does she want to do in her life?
- What has she accomplished in her life, and how does she feel
about those accomplishments? - What stories does she have to tell?
RULE #4: Simplify LogisticsBefore the date, always make a plan for where you're going and how
you're getting there. Send the name and address of the location the night
before the date via email or text message. If you're planning on going
from venue to venue, then spend some time planning out how you're