Attract And Seduce

going to get to each place. Being stuck at a venue, standing outside
trying to figure out how you're planning to get somewhere can be a real
mood killer. Also, dependent on the place you might want to let her
know what she should wear. She'll appreciate it if she is not going
horseback riding in a cocktail dress.

RULE #5: Always Be Flexible

Sometimes you'll end up somewhere that the woman doesn’t enjoy.
That's fine. Just be ready to move on and have a backup plan if this
happens. That is another reason why I suggest going to multiple venues
on your date. If they don't like the place, you can easily move on and
keep the vibe of the date positive.

RULE #6: Don't make your move at the last minute

Most guys hesitate when it comes to going for the kiss. They wait
until the very last minute, creating an awkward moment. Even if they
manage a kiss, the situation is lack-luster. When you're on a date and the
opportunity arises, go for the kiss.

Note: Impatience and hesitation are not the same thing. If you go for
the kiss before she's comfortable, you're impatient. If you see an
opportunity and chicken out then you’re hesitating. Look for a
comfortable window of opportunity to go for the kiss, and go for it. Take
a bold romantic step forward.

Examples from students:

One of my students, a painter, would bring women to the arts district
in Los Angeles. The streets there are covered in art painted by a variety
of famous street artists. The arts district is also home to a number of hip
bars and restaurants. They started their night walking the streets as he
told her about the art, and what it meant to him. He talked about how he