Why is this bad?Because, it doesn't explore your identity or create any emotional
response.
In this example, I’m selling you the band and not myself. By reading
it you learn very little about me. In seduction, you're selling yourself. In
Identity Storytelling you are expressing your identity with every word
and action.
Instead, say something like this, "My favorite band is Metallica,
because listening to them inspired me to pick up the guitar and start
playing."
In this example, the band inspired you to do something. The woman
learns at least two things about you:
- You play guitar
- You were inspired by Metallica.
3. End the story: You need to make sure every story you tell has an
end because all good stories do. An end gives the woman you are talking
to the feeling like it's her turn to speak and promotes conversation.
Practice ending your stories similarly to the way you started them. - "...And that was the most exciting adventure I'd ever gone on."
- "...And that's why they're my favorite band."
- "...And that's what made [person] so influential to me."
- "...And that's why [name of venue] is my favorite bar."
- "...And that's why I was so moved by the ...”