WOMAN IS ACTIVELY INTERESTEDWOMAN IS RECEPTIVELY INTERESTED
I wonder if he could make me
happy. He may be the one.
This is exciting.I wonder how I could make
him happy. I know just what
to do to get his attention.
I wonder how I feel about
what he suggests we do; it
sounds like fun. This is excit-
ing.I wonder what he would like
to do. I’ll look in the paper to
see what he might like.I wonder how I feel about him.
He seems really interesting. I
like getting to know him.I wonder what he is feeling
about me. I hope I look all
right. I wonder if I said the
right things.
I wonder how he will make me
feel tonight; I hope it’s good.
Let’s see, what should I wear?
What makes me feel good?I wonder how I could impress
him. Let’s see, what should I
wear? I wonder how I should
react when...
I wonder if he wants to kiss
me. I hope he does. I wonder
how it will feel.I wonder when I should make
my move and kiss him. I want
to make sure he is turned on
to me.After reading this table of women’s active or receptive in-
terest, it becomes clear that when a woman is being receptive,
her best and most feminine qualities have a chance to shine.
There is nothing wrong with a woman being actively interested
in a man, but she should remember that to be most attractive
in the long run and for her to feel best about herself while
dating, it is important to develop an attitude of receptive in-
terest.
192 / JOHN GRAY, PH.D.