Fondling cylindrical objects
If you find yourself fondling any object that remotely resembles a phallus,
you are acting out what’s going on inside your head.Don’t be surprised if the man you’re speaking with fondles a personal item of
yours while you fiddle with your earring, pen, or the stem of your glass. The
stimulus is too much for him to resist and he has to respond in a similar way
to show he’s paying attention and wants to possess you.Sliding a ring on and off your finger can show a desire to have sex with the
person you’re speaking to.Glancing sideways over a raised shoulder
A woman who raises her shoulder is performing an act of self-mimicry by
using her shoulder to emulate her rounded breasts. By turning her shoulder
towards a man, holding his gaze with slightly lowered eyelids just long
enough to get his attention, and then quickly looking away, a woman can
drive a man to distraction (see Figure 13-4). If he’s interested, that is. This
gesture tantalises the man and suggests a peep show, which most men find
hard to resist.Figure 13-4:
A raised
shoulder
highlights a
woman’s
roundness
and curves.
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