To Get From Affection to Attraction, Play Hard To Get
I want to talk about the idea of playing hard to get and how you can do it
to help you become more successful in the dating world. First, I have a
question for you: What do you think turns women OFF?
I really want you to take a moment and think about this one. Aside from
the obvious things like smelling bad and being dirty, what do you think makes
women feel that "Not if you were the last man on earth" feeling?
Now think about this question: What do you think makes a woman decide
that you're the kind of guy with whom she only wants to be "friends"?
What is it that presses the "friendship" button? Let me give you a list of
some of the things that turn women off:
- Smothering them with attention.
- Acting needy and emotional.
- Calling too often and asking them out too often.
- Acting insecure.
And here are some of the things that I believe cause women to only feel
"friendship" feeling towards a man and never ATTRACTION:
- Never taking the lead and making decisions.
- Acting nervous because you're attracted to her.
- Never taking the initiative to hold hands or kiss her.
- Acting like a female friend that wants to be her "therapist".
Are you seeing a pattern here? Do you get where I'm going?
Now, the things I mentioned above aren't ALWAYS true. If you're a super-
rich, handsome guy... and you're going out with an average woman with low
self-esteem, then you can probably do everything above and she'll still like
you.
But if you're a regular guy like me, and you want to go out with attractive
women, then you need to start paying more attention to these things.
Remember, an attractive woman has more options she knows what to do with.
A man who wants to pay attention to her is nothing new. In fact, it's probably
the same old same old.