women are being told ALL THE TIME that they are beautiful, attractive,
stunning, etc. And they don't realize that when they give an attractive woman
a compliment, it often backfires on them because they are INSTANTLY seen as
being the SAME as all the other guys out there. We humans like unique,
interesting things, and we don't like the same old same old.
Let me ask you: Would you like to eat the same thing every day for
breakfast, lunch, and dinner? I mean, even if you got to have your very
favorite food for all three meals, it would get old very fast. The same goes for
attractive women who get idolized by guys all the time.
Let me explain.
Let's say you're standing in line at the bank next to a stunning woman.
What would be the best approach to use to open a conversation and get an
email address, phone number or a date?
Well, what most guys do is either:
- Do nothing, because they don't know what to do.
- Say "You're beautiful" just like all the other guys.
Be Different Instead
Bad, bad, bad. It would be MUCH better to say, "Your shoe is untied" or
even "What time is it?" You probably realize by now that most of your
communication is not the words, but the body language and voice tone that
you use.
Well, it's important when you're meeting a woman for the first time to
stay cool, calm, and collected... and EVEN TO DO THINGS THAT SUGGEST
THAT YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED. This will make her think, "Hey, this guy isn't
trying to horn in on me... he seems DIFFERENT."
You can then continue to do one of my favorite things of all time, and say
"Hey, you seem nice... like you might make a nice FRIEND. Give me your
number and I'll call you next week and maybe we can be FRIENDS."
I hope you understand what I'm saying here. By being unusual and
challenging, you immediately separate yourself from the 'average' guy who
just acts all star-struck.
Now, this is just one example, and there are many exceptions to this idea.
If you look like Brad Pitt, you can say anything you want. And this type of
approach works best on VERY ATTRACTIVE women. Now that you have the
idea, how can you adapt it to your particular situation? Take some time to
think about it, and I think that you'll realize that you can use reverse
psychology in many different situations to separate yourself from the crowd...