How many men have you known who were a "total package", meaning that
they had all aspects of their lives handled... from being in control of their
emotions to keeping themselves healthy to knowing how to dress and groom
themselves... to being great communicators, leaders, and interesting
conversationalists?
It's often uncomfortable and daunting to even CONSIDER changing a key
belief and perspective and entertain the idea that you could have been wrong
all your life. But once you stop looking at and treating attractive women as if
they were rare, valuable, and more important than yourself, it has all kinds of
magical effects...
It starts to break habit patterns of thought and behavior that put
women in control of you. It helps you to realize that attractive women are desperately seeking
and competing for something... and you can be that something. It causes you to TAKE RESPONSIBLITY for your thoughts, emotions,
and results that you're getting in the world. It causes you to open your
mind to the idea that there is a way for you to cultivate the skill and
ability to make women feel ATTRACTION for you.The Earth isn't at the center of the universe, and neither are attractive
women, so stop acting like it!
YOU CAN be Successful with Women
If you‘re saying to yourself, ―There‘s no way I could do this, I‘m no James
Bond; it‘s a fairytale that a guy like me could attract beautiful women‖, you‘re
right—but only because you’re adopting that negative attitude. While you may
not be able to afford the plastic surgery to look like 007, the key secrets of
attracting women are more psychological. You can change your state of mind
to become more attractive, and it costs nothing more than your effort.
Suspend all disbelief about being highly attractive. You may not feel very
attractive now, or even in the near future, but you absolutely must believe you
have the potential to be that way eventually.
As you can probably imagine, I meet a lot of guys who are having
problems with women. And one of the things that I've noticed is that almost
every guy that is "failing" with women has an EXCUSE - a "good reason" why
things aren't "working" for him.
The Secret Excuse
I have come to believe that most guys carry around a "Secret Excuse" for
why they're not succeeding with women... a Secret Excuse for failure.