with love, but only with the unsatisfied desire to possess somebody,
which is the manifestation of the egoism that we have called
attachment. People are not objects, they cannot be owned and they
do not belong to anybody but themselves. Do not confuse loving with
wanting to own, love with attachment. Keep one thing clear! Nobody
can be forced to love, because if love is not free, then it is not love.
Feelings cannot be forced. Feelings do not obey suggestions,
manipulations, impositions or mandates. If you want to be loved, then
love unconditionally, without expecting anything in return, and then
some day, the law of cause and effect will bring you what you have
given.
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