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to help you recall these reactions.
Column 5 is a crucial next step. You will need to reassess these
experiences from an attachment perspective to gain insight into the
issues that affected your relationships. What attachment issues
underlie your reactions: Protest behavior? Deactivation? Refer to the
lists as a guide. In column 6, you’re asked to consider ways in which
your reaction—now translated into attachment principles—hurts you
and gets in the way of your happiness. Finally, column 7 prompts you
to consider new, secure ways of handling these situations using a
security-enhancing role model in your life and the secure principles we
outline in this book (and in the box on page 174).
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