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Once both Georgia and Henry analyzed their working models, they
started viewing their situation differently. Henry realized that by
ignoring his wife’s needs and ridiculing her dependency, he was only
making matters worse and causing unhappiness in the relationship.
Georgia realized that by using protest behavior she was actually
distancing Henry instead of making him want to be there for her, as
she assumed. When they sat down and talked about this recurrent
issue, they were both better prepared. Henry said that although he did
think about her during the day, he was so busy that he just didn’t have
time to stop and call. It was reassuring for Georgia to hear that Henry
often thought about her when they were apart. She also understood his