Life Skills & Leadership: Unit 2, Session 2: Positive Communication | Page 28 of 127Style Description Advantages Possible Problem When to UseDirect
Ideas, feelings, wants,
needs, and requests
are stated simply,
bluntly, to the point,
with fewer wordsGives an opportunity
to get things done
quicklyLeaves little room for
confusionHurting the feelings of
other peopleNot showing enough
respect, especially to
eldersWhen under time
pressureIn an emergencyWhen it is culturally
acceptable to use this
styleIndirect
Ideas, feelings, wants,
needs, and requests
are stated
roundabout, less to
the point, more like a
hint or suggestion, not
specifically statedGives an opportunity
for people to disagree,
be polite, be wrong, or
save faceMisunderstanding of
what the person really
wants, needs, or feelsThe need for practice
to interpret
statementsWhen there is more
than one correct
action or answerWhen direct
statements are
culturally
inappropriateHandout 1: Direct and Indirect Communication