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I’m not a doctor, nor have I been a therapist or relationship professional. Read this book
at your own risk. If you need a degree or certification from an Authority for you to believe what
I’m about to tell you, then please save us both the grief and return this book now. I’ll refund your
money and we won’t have to waste any more time. However, if you can understand that the
best advice you get is often from a non-professional, someone who doesn’t have to follow an
institution (which I will add has never been able to help men until they reach a mental
breakdown, but still has no problem publishing The Rules for women), then please read every
word. I promise you this will be an unbelievably insightful and invaluable journey into the world
of women, dating, and sex.
Let me be clear, there is nothing wrong with therapists and what I lovingly refer to as the
Pundits. They try really hard, but their profession often impairs them. You see, they feel they
have to tell you the way it should be, rather than the way it really is. Oh, sure, we could argue
about what Truth is until we join Socrates and Plato for a discussion in the afterlife, but you
need tools now. Once you fully understand and accept the Principle of Truth, you will be ready
to make unbelievable strides in your success with women.
What is known to everyone is not called “wisdom.”- Wang Xi (on The Art of War)
ANOTHER WARNING: ..............................................................................................................................
You are fighting a battle for control of your thoughts. We live in a decidedly female-
centric society. I know, you’re all slapping your foreheads and saying, “But men are the violent
ones! Men are the cause of all the problems. They beat their wives! They start wars! And
women still earn less money!”
Truth check: Statistics and studies (dating back to at least 1978 – See Dr. Suzanne
Steinmetz) indicate that men are abused at least as much as women. Perhaps more, since men
are afraid of the emasculation of reporting these incidents. Very few of these abusive incidents
involve women acting in self-defense.
Truth check: Women control media and markets through their buying power. Who buys
most of the books, fiction and non-fiction? Why are there so many chick flicks? Ever wonder
how a book with a title like “How to Dump That Jerk Man” can be printed, but if a book titled
“How to Understand Female Mood Swings” were to hit the shelves, there would be protests and
rioting? Because the book companies are in the business of making money, not publishing