© 2003 – Carlos Xuma. – DD Publications – All Rights Reserved –
Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit http://www.datingdynamics.com for more information.When you were young, your mother probably chastised you for teasing and taunting
girls. Now, you knew it made those girls more interested and attentive, but your mother told you
it was wrong, and that’s “not what a gentleman does.” She was partly right, but not on the
teasing and treatment. Women want to be thrilled and entertained by the presence of a funny,
confident, self-disciplined man they can respect. They also want him to challenge her, and to
not put her on a pedestal for worship. What probably happened to poor old mom is that the
romance fell out of the marriage a while back, and she didn’t know how to verbalize what it was
that drew her to your dad in the first place. Since then, they’ve either divorced or lost any real
fire between them. She doesn’t want you to make the same mistakes, but she also doesn’t
understand that teasing and poking fun were valid ways to stoke a woman’s attraction.
Unless you see your mom and dad having the kind of marriage or dating experience you
want, don’t listen to what they told you. It’s unintentional misinformation that will only confuse
you. Do what your heart tells you is True. Practice these strategies, and understand that only
through the Three S’s can you achieve your goal of becoming a Dynamic Man – the kind that
women are drawn to.