The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1
This is a relatively simple one. All you do is walk up to your target, smile, and
say:

“Hi. I like you. I wanted to meet you. My name is...”

Once you’ve introduced yourself, you can take the conversation anywhere you
want to.

--The “Drive-By” Opener


I call this the “Drive-By” because you are adding in a time constraint into the
interaction which usually telegraphs an impulsiveness of some sort.

“Hey, I can’t talk long, but you seem really cool and I wanted to meet you.
My name is...”

This is good to use if it looks like your target is in a hurry and doesn’t have time
to talk.

On the flip side, it’s good if YOU’RE in a hurry and really don’t have time to talk.

After using this one, you’re gonna want to hurry and get her contact information
or set up a meeting.

--The “What’s your name” Opener


This is an Opener where you start off by making the girl introduce herself. An
Oldie but Goodie.

“Hi, what’s your name?”

From here, it’s typically best to either introduce yourself in return, launch into a
story of some sort, or give her instructions to further your interaction.

You can even stack a few more Direct Openers on this one. For example:

You: “Hi, what’s your name?”
Her: blah, blah.
You: “I really like you and wanted to meet you. My name is...”

--The “Joey from Friends” Opener


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