The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1

“Why not?” asked the girl.


“Have you ever been to Mexico?” Dan asked.


“No,” she said.


“I live in San Diego, I go down there all the time. They have the best margaritas down
there, and cheap too! You could get twelve of those sour apple things for a dollar if you
wanted. Me and my friends would go there every weekend and drink until we were
nearly dead! I can’t even LOOK at a margarita without my head spinning! But I still
love them though.”


The girl smiled.


“So where are you from?” asked Dan.


“I moved out here from Florida,” she said.


“No kidding? I went to school out in Florida!” he said. “I studied law at Florida State.
Oh my God I had some crazy times when I was in college...”


From there, Dan went on to tell a couple funny stories about his college days. He got all
the girls involved and laughing. During his tales, he’d reach out and touch the girl he
was talking to lightly on the arm or shoulder.


When one story ran its course, Dan would ask another question, and he’d keep asking the
girl questions until he found something he could relate to and tell a story about.


By the end of the night, he was making out with the girl who had sat down next to him
and got her number. If he hadn’t gotten so drunk, he probably could have taken her home
with him.


That night, I learned a lot, just by sitting back and watching how Dan operated. It was
very subtle what he was doing, but simple and effective.


The entire time he was with the girl, he was simply establishing connections with her.
That was it. And he was doing it with such energy that the girl eventually just gave into
him.


I’ve seen Dan do this millions of times, always with favorable results.


After I broke down what Dan did and tried it out myself, I too found that the responses I
got from women were quite favorable.


Thus, the “Fish & Hook” method was devised.


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