The Fish & Hook method is very simple...
It starts with you “Fishing” for something you can relate to. You do this by asking the
girl a question about herself. What she likes, where she’s from, what she does, etc.
When she gives you an answer you can “hook” into through some type of commonality,
you take that and run a story around it.
For instance, if I asked a girl where she was from, and she said “Boston,” I would hook
into that by saying “No kidding? I used to live in Boston! I went to high school there for
a year...” and then I’d go on to talk about my trials and tribulations in high school.
A hook is where you can establish a “commonality” between you and the girl, something
both of you can relate to. Then you go on to strengthen that connection by telling a story
and sharing something about yourself.
What will usually happen is that the girl will share a story about a similar experience she
had, or an experience of her’s unrelated to the current connection, but in turn establishing
a new connection with you.
The more connections you can establish with a girl using this method, the more trust and
comfort you can build up in the interaction.
When I go on dates, this is pretty much all I do. Just fish & hook, fish & hook.
You’ll often hear guys who are good with women say “I just ask the girl about
themselves. Girls love to talk about themselves, so I just go along for the ride.”
But they aren’t JUST asking the girls about themselves. That’s part of it, but when the
girl shares something with you about who she is or what she’s interested in, she’s giving
you an opportunity to establish a connection with her.
When you’re able to relate to what she tells you and share your experiences back, a
strong connection is formed.
But again, most men don’t ever analyze what they do.
You’ll have guys go on dates and just ask the girl questions, and the girl will find she’s
doing all the talking. If the guy doesn’t try to engage in the conversation and relate
similar experiences to the girl, the connection between the two of them will diminish and
the “spark” between them will die.
That’s why so many guys lose a girl’s interest after one date. They never bothered to
create or strengthen the connections they made with the woman they are with.
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