HOW TO FLIRT
Now it’s time to get into the nitty gritty of flirting.
The first thing to keep in mind when you’re flirting with a woman isn’t that you’re there
to show off or impress her. Often, when you hear guys talk about how much money they
make, what kind of car they drive, or how powerful they are at work, these guys are
mistaking flirting for showing off.
The goal of flirting is not to impress a woman. It is to express your interest in her in a
subtle and playful way. It is designed, by nature, to be a way for a male and a female to
discover whether or not the two are attracted to each other.
Walking up to a girl and saying “You’re hot, want to bone?” is not flirting. It’s being
forward. This blunt approach bypasses the build-up of the mating ritual and is libel to
turn a girl off.
But walking up to a woman, smiling at her, making strong eye contact, getting her to
laugh, maybe winking at her... this is all stuff that is meant to communicate interest to
her.
However, the purpose of your flirting is not ultimately to express your interest in a
woman. Its purpose is to find out whether or not she’s going to return that interest! If
she does, that’s a sign to proceed. If she doesn’t, that’s a sign you should either walk
away, or change tactics.
When it comes to flirting for a man, there are only two things that need to be
communicated:
- Male Sexuality
- Confidence
These two traits, when combined, are incredibly attractive to women. And when you
communicate these traits both non-verbally and indirectly with your language, you are a
powerful force to recon with in the flirting realm.
Remember: Women are empathetic and emotional. They respond to strong emotion
and feelings.
This means if you effectively send out your male sexuality and confidence when flirting,
women WILL respond to it!
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