who is prepared to take her clothes off at the same time as I do
is an honor....) Making love is as close as we are ever going to
get to another human being, as intimate as it is ever going to
be. If we don’t move respectfully in this arena, then what are
we doing? And respect grows out of knowledge—knowledge
of not only what our partner likes best but of the whole
process. We should be as skilful as possible, and if we aren’t, it
is something we can spend a bit of time learning about. There
is no shame in learning. We can’t all be born the best drivers
and the best lovers in the world.
WE HAVE THE RIGHT
TO PRIVACY, TO RESPECT,
TO BE HELD IN
HIGH ESTEEM.