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QQQAThe handy gym tool isn’t
just for loosening up tight
musclespost-workout–it’s
alsoasweetsexerciseprop.
Usethesquishycylinder
(or a rolled-up yoga mat)
to prop up your booty in
missionary by positioning
itunderyourlowerback,
suggestssexcoachAmy
Levine.Thisanglemeans
you’ll feel him extra-deep
againstyourG-spot,and
the rolling motion will make
his thrusting smoother. The
same setup can also make
oral sex more comfortable
forbothofyou(asin,less
awkward positioning, more
enjoyment). Awesome
bonus: you’ll get a nice
backside massage in the
process. Foam rollers FTW!AIt’s easy to feel sexy as hell
whenyour clothes are flying
offwithsomeoneyoujust
met, and loads of researchshowsthatarousallowers
inhibitions in the moment,
says social psychologist
Amanda Gesselman. But
the wild abandon also messes
with your decision-making,
causing you to do things
you might not normally
do.Astheeffectwearsoff,
regret can kick in – studies
show women feel more
of it than men. To halt the
spiral,saysGesselman,ask
yourself: did you enjoy it? Was
there consent? Did you use
acondom?Wouldyouhave
sexwiththispersoninanon-
ONS situation? Your answers
can help you consider your
action plan the next time
yougohomewithahottie.E-MAILYOURSEXQUESTIONSTO
[email protected]AA playful pat that doesn’t
leave you in pain can bring
arushofbloodtoyourtush,
and feel-good hormones to
therestofyourbody.On
topofthat,youmayscore
a psychological buzz from
trying out a submissive role
and letting your partner
have his way with you,
Christian Grey-style. Just
know that these hot effects
are only experienced when
both partners are up for
such love taps. If you’re
ready and willing, ‘Go
with the flow and give
yourself permission to
experience the new
sensation,’sayssex
therapist Michael Aaron.COSMOPOLITAN.CO.ZABY JULIE VADNAL