Men have different aesthetics, so what might be
a turnoff for one man may be a total turn-on for
another. Rest assured, though, that no matter the flaws
you find when you look at yourself in the mirror,
somewhere on God’s earth, you are really “doing it”
for someone—someone out there is attracted to you
exactly the way you are. A confident woman is incred-
ibly attractive, no matter what mold she fits in. Men
are also very visual people, so there is no question men
will check out a woman’s clothes, the way she walks,
her makeup, her feet, her hands, her daintiness—little
escapes our notice.
For the average man, whatever you’re doing to
make yourself look beautiful while you’re hanging on
his arm is cool by him. Boob jobs, tummy tucks, breast
reductions, nose jobs—if it makes you feel beautiful,
we’re good. But if you’re telling your man you want a
nose job and he sees nothing wrong with the nose you