The same lines repeatedly. You’ve already heard his
sob story, so why even engage? Why go back and
forth? Why argue?
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is
getting into an argument and going back and forth
with someone you’ve already ended it with. You feel
the need to defend yourself. Before you know it, the
back and forth with him psychologically reels you
back into the situation. He’s getting you emotionally
invested with him again. It’s a mind game. So, stop
it before it even starts.
Now, if by some chance, a miracle happens and
he has a come to Jesus moment, then it might be
worth hearing him out. Maybe suddenly he figures
out, he’s been a jerk and wants to correct it. If this
is the case, I’m not completely against you’re hearing
him out. However, you’ll be able to see it right away.
You’ll be able to sense the difference in him. When
a man has truly changed, when he’s truly grown, his
energy is different. The way he presents himself is
going to have changed. I think as a woman; your
intuition will be able to sense it.
However, let’s be real, in majority of situations
that’s not what happens. Nothing will have changed.
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