oppositesex.WhenyourememberthatmenarefromMarsandwomenarefromVenus,everythingcanbe
explained.
ANOVERVIEWOFOURDIFFERENCES............................................................................................
ThroughoutthisbookIwilldiscussin greatdetailourdifferences.Eachchapterwillbringyounewand
crucialinsights.Herearethemajordifferencesthatwewillexplore:
Inchapter 2 ,wewillexplorehowmen'sandwomen'svaluesareinherentlydifferentandtrytounderstand
thetwobiggestmistakeswemakein relating tothe oppositesex:menmistakenlyoffersolutionsand
invalidate feelings while women offer unsolicited advice and direction. Through understanding our
Martian/Venusians background it becomes obvious why men and women unknowingly make these
mistakes.Byrememberingthesedifferenceswecancorrectourmistakesandimmediatelyrespondtoeach
otherinmoreproductiveways.
Inchapter 3 ,we'lldiscoverthedifferentwaysmenandwomencopewithstress.WhileMartianstendto
pullawayandsilentlythinkaboutwhat'sbotheringthem,Venusiansfeelaninstinctiveneedtotalkabout
what'sbotheringthem.Youwilllearnnewstrategiesforgettingwhatyouwantattheseconflictingtimes.
Wewillexplorehowtomotivatetheoppositesexinchapter 4 .Menaremotivatedwhentheyfeelneeded
while women are motivated when they feelcherished. We will discuss the threesteps for improving
relationshipsandexplorehowtoovercomeourgreatestchallenges:menneedtoovercometheirresistance
togivinglovewhilewomenmustovercometheirresistancetoreceivingit.
Inchapter 5 ,you'lllearnhowmenandwomencommonlymisunderstandeachotherbecausetheyspeak
different languages. A Martian/Venusian Phrase Dictionary is provided to translate commonly
misunderstoodexpressions.Youwilllearnhowmenandwomenspeakandevenstopspeakingforentirely
differentreasons.Womenwilllearnwhattodowhenamanstopstalking,andmenwilllearnhowtolisten
betterwithoutbecomingfrustrated.
Inchapter 6 ,youwilldiscoverhowmenandwomenhavedifferentneedsforintimacy.Amangetsclose
buttheninevitablyneedstopullaway.Womenwilllearnhowtosupportthispulling_awayprocesssohe
will spring back to her like arubber band. Women also will learn thebest times for having intimate
conversationswithaman.
Wewillexplore,inchapter 7 ,howawoman'slovingattitudesriseandfallrhythmicallyinawavemotion.
Menwilllearnhowcorrectlytointerpretthesesometimessuddenshiftsoffeeling.Menalsowilllearnto
recognizewhentheyareneededthemostandhowtobeskillfullysupportiveatthosetimeswithouthaving
tomakesacrifices.