Thiscanbeextremelyhardforamantounderstand.Onewaytolookatitistoimaginethatwomenhave
alovetanksimilartothegastankonacar.Itneedstobefilledoverandoveragain.Doingmanylittle
things(andscoringmanypoints)isthesecretforfillingawoman'slovetank.Awomanfeelslovedwhen
herlovetankisfull.Sheisabletorespondwithgreaterlove,trust,acceptance,appreciation,admiration,
approval,andencouragement.Lotsoflittlethingsareneededtotopoffhertank.
Followingisalistof 101 ofthelittlewaysamancankeephispartner'slovetankfull.
101 WAYSTOSCOREPOINTSWITHAWOMAN
1 .Uponreturninghomefindherfirstbeforedoinganythingelseandgiveherahug.
2 .Askherspecificquestionsaboutherdaythatindicateanawarenessofwhatshewasplanningtodo
(e.g.,"Howdidyourappointmentwiththedoctorgo?").
3 .Practicelisteningandaskingquestions.
4 .Resistthetemptationtosolveherproblemsempathizeinstead.
5 .Givehertwentyminutesofunsolicited,qualityattention(don'treadthenewspaperorbedistractedby
anythingelseduringthistime).
6 .Bringhercutflowersasasurpriseaswellasonspecialoccasions.
7 .Planadateseveraldaysinadvance,ratherthanwaitingforFridaynightandaskingherwhatshewants
todo.
8 .Ifshegenerallymakesdinnerorifitisherturnandsheseemstiredorreallybusy,offertomakedinner.
9 .Complimentheronhowshelooks.
10 .Validateherfeelingswhensheisupset.
11 .Offertohelpherwhensheistired.
12 .Scheduleextratimewhentravelingsothatshedoesn'thavetorush.
13 .Whenyouaregoingtobelate,callherandletherknow.
14 .Whensheasksforsupport,sayyesornowithoutmakingherwrongforasking.
15 .Wheneverherfeelingshavebeenhurt,givehersomeempathyandtellher"I'msorryyoufeelhurt."
Thenbesilent;letherfeelyourunderstandingofherhurt.Don'toffersolutionsorexplanationswhyher
hurtisnotyourfault.
16 .Wheneveryouneedtopullaway,letherknowyouwillbebackorthatyouneedsometimetothink
aboutthings.