How to Use Power Phrases

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26 Why PowerPhrases?



  1. We’re not done with Respect-Robbing Poison Phrases
    yet! We still have the Vague HintingPoison Phrases, such as,


I wish someone would...

when you mean,


Will you...?

Hints like


I could use some help around here.

when you mean,


Please help me.

Hints like


I might want your help with...

to see if they pick up the hint and offer help. If what you mean is


Will you help me with...?

take a deep breath and say it!
Did you see yourself in any of these weakening examples?
How often have you killed your message with Respect-Robbing
Poison Phrases?

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