Model Marriage
- Men feel comfortable in her presence.
- Her charming personality makes her a hit for all types of men and in her naiveté
she can turn them on without knowing. She usually thinks she’s just being
friendly. - Does not take too much coaxing to get her into the mood to make love.
- Usually maintains a good attitude about sex in spite of what she might have heard
before marriage. - She can be sexually aggressive and do the inviting.
- She has a tremendous desire to please her husband and with a reasonable amount
of encouragement will usually succeed in this area of marriage provided her
partner does not hammer away at her faults in other areas.
The Choleric Husband and Sex
- He does not indulge in much foreplay. He just wants it quickly and then he is on
his way! He soon learns, however, that he has to be tender and loving. - Appears to be a great lover on the surface.^3
- Unable to lavish affection on spouse, and impatient––this makes adjustment
difficult for wife. - He is likely to take his wife into the bedroom without the slightest sex education
himself. This is because he is usually impulsive and thinks that things will work
out. - Learns quickly. Is practical and will therefore make necessary changes to
lovemaking. If he finds that affection is exciting and that watching the woman
he loves respond to his love is extremely fulfilling he will go for it.
The Choleric Wife and Sex
- She can either make her husband very happy or unhappy sexually. If she has had
a good upbringing, teaching and parents, she is exciting and creative. If she has
had bad teaching, molestation by a parent/an adult, or other traumatic experiences,
she is very difficult sexually (because she is opinionated).^4 - If she observed a warm, loving relationship between her parents while growing
up, she will enter marriage expecting to enjoy lovemaking and because cholerics
usually achieve what they set out to do, she and her husband will not be
disappointed in their sexual life. - If she has been raised in an unhappy home or environment, has been molested,
or often endured traumatic experiences in childhood or has a mind that “sex is
dirty” she may encounter serious difficulty in relating properly to her husband.
This is because the choleric forms such strong opinions about things that once she
has that idea, it is difficult (but not impossible) to change. - Since choleric wives are not usually given to open affection they may stifle their
husband’s advances before their own motor rolls into action.