- If you know how, you make her feel attraction
feelings rather than "friend" feelings. - The way to do it is to stop acting "nice" and start
acting,
well... something else... and I don't mean "not nice".
So what DOES attract women? And how do you do it
exactly? Good questions... At the beginning, I mentioned
three qualities: Funny, Confident, and Mysterious. Before I
talk about each, I first have to remind you that WOMEN
DON'T MAKE SENSE. Remember that. Here's a good metaphor:
Remember when you learned to drive? It all made sense...
turn the wheel left and go left, turn it right and go
right...
But do you remember when you learned to back up?
Backing up is a whole new game. Everything that used to
work now works in a different way. At first you feel
disoriented. Turn the wheel left and go right... and you
have to learn how to maneuver with the back wheels staying
straight while the front wheels turn... all with your head
turned around. For most people, this takes some time and
practice. But once you "get it" then you can do it anytime
you want. Well, women are very similar. At first it's very
confusing. You have to try things that don't seem to make
sense. But once you get the hang of it, then you see how it
works and can make it work... just like backing up a car.
As much as many women would hate to admit it, there's
something very attractive about a man who is just a little
more confident than he should be. And if you combine this
with the right amount of humor, you have a magic
combination that will charm almost any woman.
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Following Common Social Courtesy Is Bad For Attraction
When around attractive women, guys tend to act like they want and need
the woman‘s approval, just like they would in any other social situation by
being nice, courteous, etc.
The paradox and irony is that needing her approval, kissing up, letting her
lead and you respond will NEVER cause her to feel that gut level attraction for
you.