There are personality traits, physical traits, and behaviors that are more
attractive or less attractive on average.
For instance, confidence is universally attractive, and lack of confidence is
universally unattractive.
In every situation, you can act in a way that will increase or decrease the
attraction present.
Remember, if you don‘t spark the attraction from the beginning, you have
little chance of getting it started later. On the other hand, once it‘s started,
you can screw it up if you don‘t continue to amplify it.
Of course, all of this attraction stuff is happening on an ―unconscious‖
level. Unless you take the time to explain the concept of Attraction to another
person, they‘ll go along thinking that they are in control of it.
Women Use Clues To Generalize
Generally speaking, women read much deeper into situations and
communication than men.
A man will meet a beautiful woman and fail to notice obvious clues like
chain smoking, mention of abusive ex-boyfriends, and not having a job.
Women, on the other hand, can be talking to a friendly, handsome man
who appears to have his act together, and because his shoes don‘t match his
belt think:
―Well, if he doesn‘t realize that belt and shoes should match, then he
obviously doesn‘t understand fashion... and if he and I ever got into a
relationship I‘d always have to worry about him showing up looking like a
fashion crime in front of my friends. I‘ll bet he doesn‘t take care of his house
either. He‘s probably not aware of what‘s cool in general. He‘d be way too
much work.‖
Sound unreal?
Try this: Find the nearest attractive woman and read that last section to
her. You‘ll probably see a knowing smile... that will culminate into a full belly-
laugh.
Really, try it.
What‘s my point?
Well, the simple point is that women make all kinds of decisions based on
very little details (and big details as well).